To have a happy relationship you need to focus on the ‘Do’s.’ Actively work together to build up a positive vibe in your relationship. Move toward what’s good in a relationship and move away toward what’s bad.
We can learn to minimize negatives within the relationship to maximize the positive or at least find a balance between the two. Being positive helps us shift our perspective and create better relationships.
Next time you find yourself in a difficult situation, find ways to inject humor to help people see greater possibilities. If you and your partner are stuck in a one-note song, try to move toward a more positive outlook through smaller opportunities. Having positive emotions as a couple comes from having fun, gratitude, inspiration, and curiosity.
Work on setting more positive goals for your relationship. Couple who seek to increase the good in their relationship will have a better change at a happy relationship.